My boy was student of the month. Last year I was called in once a week to tell me that my parenting was sub-par, that my boy was not going ot make it in kindergarten if I didn't get him in line behaviorally. Exhausted, sick, almost to tired to care, I pursued the medical side of things and did my best with the day to day behvioral, emotional issues. And I put one foot in front of the other...and lo and behold. His teachers this year tell me nothing but good things. He tries so hard, he's so well-behaved, HE'S SO KIND. The outside world is now recognizing the boy I saw all along.