I'm officially a big phat pregnant lady

I even got the doctor on my case, because I gained 5 pounds this month which she thinks is too much. My total weight gain at 28 weeks is 18.5 pounds. Which i (and my mama and the midwife I talked to) think is just fine for weight gain at the beginning of the 3rd trimestre. I think the doctor was just pissed at me because i refused to take the sugar shock test.
The bean is apparently now a jumping bean. Not only can I feel him moving, about half the time I can see him moving. He seems not to like it when my bladder is full and seems to kick it on purpose just to remind me not to cramp his space with my urine, but maybe I'm just imagining that.
Shit is stressful with the house and the f'in' neighbours, and they still haven't found a substitute for me at work. But i keep on keepin' on, and honestly I'm feeling better than i was. The psychologist I'm seeing is pretty cool, and I started my birth preparation classes- run by the hospital, and another breathing/stretching class that's run by an awesome young hippy mom- who now gives me catalan kisses when we see each other as if we were friends. It's possible that we COULD be friends, in my opinion.
Here's the progress that we have made recently on the house. This is the room where motorman re-hung the window and rebuilt the wall.

try to ignore the water heater, we're waiting for our plumber friend to move that to the bathroom.
This room is definately the most daring so far in terms of colour choices, because It's got two bright green walls, one pale yellow wall, and one wall that's half brown and half yellow. Then the combo windows and doors as you can see. I think it's awesome. Some day this will be the children's room, but for now we'll use it as a multi-purpose guest room until the actual multi-purpose guest room is ready (sometime next year maybe).
Ignore the unpainted lower part, we have to put some paneling or dry wall on the lower half of the walls here, because they're covered with some kind of plastic to try to keep the humidity from coming up them (the previous occupants did that). We haven't decided exactly what to do and don't have the money to buy anything for it anyway until next month.
So that's what's up in mandalynnland.
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I LOVE IT!!! ALL! i love it all!
you look great and round and happy. I feel like I just found out you were pregnant and that the past six months has sure gone by fast. Yep, love the belly, love the colors in your room. love the new window (good job motorman). I'm so excited for you and looking forward to hearing more updates/seeing more pics
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glad to hear you're feeling great. keep on keepin' on, gorgeous mama
and ignore dr man/lady; 18 pounds at 28 weeks is frigging FINE. whatever his/her problem is, i'm betting it has nothing to do with you OR your weight gain. what an asshat! you look amazing and that's NOT an unhealthy amount of weight to have gained. as a "fuck-you" to the doctor i'd sit down and eat an entire cheesecake right now if i were you. but that's just me! 
Eat healthy-ish when you are hungry and don't eat when you aren't hungry. Just listen to your body. I hate how ob/gyns think that a pregnant person can steadily gain within certain parameters. I was told I wasn't gaining enough at first (I had really bad morning sickness, vomiting every am for 4 months straight) and so they told me to force down milkshakes (the milkshake diet) whenever I could. I was 5' 6" 140 lbs starting my pregnancy- I was hardly anorexic. Anyhow, long story short? The same ob/gyn who put me on the milkshake diet and got me really stressed out that I was somehow starving my child by having morning sickness ended up telling me "WHOA! You've gained almost 40lbs so far! But don't go on a diet, it's too late to do anything now, bad for the baby!" somewhere near the end of 7 months. I ended up gaining 46lbs. with my son and going up to 186lbs by the time I gave birth. So, fuck listening to that crap. The irony for me was that I was really FORCING myself to down those milkshakes- all I wanted was seaweed, strawberries and frozen mango. I bet if I had listened to my body instead of the doc it would have been better for me in the end. Anyhow, I'm now at 134 so
on the medical community and their fear tactics. I eat when I'm hungry. I wouldn't want to take one of those sugar tests either, I used to have to give them to people, blech. You're looking good.
friggen doctor, just ignore her/him. Sometimes people have control issues or something, I sometimes think. My midwife was kinda hyper about weight gain but I just ignored her every time she brought it up (which wasn't all that often). And you know what? Everything was fine. And you know everything is fine - I can tell!
Room looks fantastic!!! I love the kitty in the window, she? he? looks like they enjoy the room too! 
Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough. -- Emily Dickinson
You want to do what you think is right and what matters to you, and if other people don't like it, as my father would have said, they can go fuck themselves. -- Amy Bloom
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