An interview with Shirley "God Hates Fags" Phelps...this is wild.

i'm sure you ladies don't remember, but a few months back Chris Mason organized a counter protest in Boston to raise money for every minute that the Phelps clan protested the opening of the Laramie project. i was really looking forward to going but it ended up being during the weekend of that crazy ice storm that left most of new england a disaster zone...i was bummed to miss it, but chris and i have talked a couple times through email and i've been following his current cross-country trek while he films for his Driving Equality documentary. he just posted this clip of yesterday's interview with Shirley Phelps, and it's pretty unbelievable. plus he got a tour of the "factory" where they make their signs, and they actually gave him one as a memento. he says in his blog that they were actually very kind and welcoming to him, but i'm unclear on whether they knew he's gay. i love his comments in his blog about how freaky it felt to be filming her with the camera he had paid for with money raised by counter-protesting her family...it's kind of a mind-fuck, huh? and, by the way, i almost fell off my chair when she uses the expression "it's on like donkey kong" during the interview.

anyway, here's the link to the clip http://drivingequality.com/2009/06/02/god-hates-who/

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not going to watch

don't care. this person is not relevant, she does not represent any statistically viable group of people. her "group" is like seven people, literally. it's her husband, her, and a few other family members and other piss-poor protoplasm that latched on because they're crazy. but it makes for great tv. these people are the perfect example of how tv creates and markets "issues," like how FOX created that tax revolt thing a couple months ago. only not paying taxes is something at least a couple hundred people can see the merits of, so they were able to find enough people to fill the camera shots. this, no one supports.

if i'm going to watch the ravings of a lunatic, it'll at least be some artist that makes something relevant to my world. this is like putting a bikini on a chimp and filming it.

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I think there's value in

I think there's value in knowing what kind of nutcases are out there and what they are saying - trying to gain some insight into why they think the way they do. The Phelps clan is definitely on the margins of society and they are a tiny group as you say but they are VERY vocal. I don't know that anyone here or otherwise considers them as relevant per se. Like I don't have any fears that this woman is converting any rational non-lunatics to her cause (at least I hope not) but I still find it fascinating that there are people out there who think like this.
And there are a lot of people in this country who hold similar views to these guys, just to a less radical extent.
I find it fascinating in the way that cults are fascinating. The Manson Family was only a handful of people but I don't think it makes their story any less compelling. Obviously the Phelpses haven't murdered anyone but their level of hatred is mind-boggling to me on the same kind of level.

oh yeah,

compelling sure, for the same entertainment value that the manson family has. just to be clear, this "church" is smaller than the manson family. it is quite literally only a few members. last i read anything about them it was seven people in total. it's fun to gawk at them, but i just don't think of them as a legitimate foe in the equal rights movement, if anything it helps our side. i know a lot of homophobes, but i don't know any who hold similar views. maybe i'm sheltered in this way, good god i hope not.

as far as crazy is concerned i worked in a nuthouse. it was entertaining for the first few months, then you realize crazy people are everywhere. what gets under my skin is group think, which is a similar issue. how it is that only a tiny minority of people are capable of thinking for themselves, and everyone else can be made to believe anything, given the right circumstances. it's an interesting topic, for sure. but not relevant with respect to equal rights, imo.

geez, i really hope not.

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the phelps clan...

they may be a small and extreme example of hatred toward the LGBT community, but i think they also represent a huuuuuuge population of people who are just as hateful if not as vocal. i agree that they don't pose much of an actual threat to equal rights because they're so extreme and over-the-top, but they exemplify the fear and violent hate that many americans feel toward queer people in general.

they're also known for acts of intolerable cruelty (like protesting the funerals of young men killed in iraq), which i think makes them incredibly relevant to equal rights. i also think that making their awful antics known and keeping them in the public eye helps unify people against their hate; just an example, the documentary this interview will be in is made by a young man who organizes counter-protests and raises money for every minute the phelps family protests...he's raised tens of thousands of dollars toward LGBT rights, which wouldn't have been possible if he had overlooked their relevance.

aaanyway, that's just my thoughts (like 5 days too late, oops)

i just disagree

i think they're crazy enough to be sensational, but not representative of the the kind of hate that we need to fight against. i don't think that the people who murdered sakia gunn or matthew shepard had anything in common with this handful of people. i think mentioning them in the same vein as anti-gay violence only legitimizes them. they're not just crazy, they're also stupid and isolated. no one supports them. whereas anti gay violence does have support, and makes life risky for a lot of people.

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ok, gotcha.

i didn't realize you were referring to their relevancy in comparison to other groups; that is a really good point that groups that commit violent acts are not only more common and frightening, but also obviously alot more relevant to the issue. i do wonder, though, if off-the-wall fringe groups like the phelps might actually inspire and contribute to the violence in alot of cases??

doubt it

the phelps clan is all about god hating america, god exacting punishment on america. i don't recall god having being invoked in the cases of anti gay violence that i remember. i don't think the two twisted ideologies are related.

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naw... I don't think anyone's

naw... I don't think anyone's arguing that they're a serious threat to the gay rights movement. They're more like a freak show. And you're right - I think they help the cause more than hurt it. I mean, they're protesting at funerals of soldiers who've died in Iraq telling families that their kids' death is punishment on the US for it's acceptance of homosexuals. And lots of their signs have pictures of stick figures engaged in sexual acts (that's part of what this nutbag says here - she doesn't get why people are offended by the images because they're not anatomically correct...?). So they piss off the gung-ho Americans AND the super conservative religious folks. They're not a threat to anything.

I think this interview is a relevent part of the documentary in question because it illustrates just how deep some people's fear and hatred of homosexuality runs. The Phelpses are the most vocal and visible example but I'm sure that level of hate does not start and end within their group. As unbelieveable as it sounds, there are people who don't know that groups like this, however small, exist until they see or hear it for themselves.

And it's entertainment and shock value. I don't think anyone can deny that. But there it's not without any merit. I was responding mostly to when you said it's like watching a chimp in a bikini. Sort of, but not really. In the respect that they are both ridiculous spectacles to gawk at - yes, but there's nothing fascinating to me from a human or psychological persepctive about a chimp in a bikini (except for that some asshole human put them up to it for a laugh) the way that there is with someone like Shirley Phelps.

maybe i am sheltered

because i can't see social relevance in this at all. and in fact, i think it only strengthens homophobia when gay rights groups give them a platform and paint them as a viable enemy. but seriously, i rarely leave the northeast. i'm afraid i'm unaware of the level of ignorance out there. here, acceptance of gays is a given and homophobes have the sense to hide it.

and it's so blatantly obvious that people do this because they're gay, or some true deviant that they're hoping to hide from the rest of the world.

hey, maybe mrs phelps will see this thread.

don't fall in love shirley!

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"but seriously, i rarely

"but seriously, i rarely leave the northeast. i'm afraid i'm unaware of the level of ignorance out there. here, acceptance of gays is a given and homophobes have the sense to hide it."

Lucky you! Cause around here there are many, many who don't hide it. And I don't even want to guess how many actually agree with the Phelps' message.

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blech

scary.

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I'm like you Madame Filth -

I'm like you Madame Filth - lived in the Northeast all my life. So I do know what you mean.
But just yesterday my friend was telling me that a friend of his mom's is in the middle of a divorce from her husband after he came out and confessed that he's gay.
This couple lives in a small town on the South Shore so an hour out of Boston at most. I guess however clear the signs (according to my friend - also gay - the man in this case was the embodiment of all the classic gay stereotypes) the woman really didn't see this coming from her hubby and has been devastated. She's evidently also quite the gossip so with that and her distraught state she went around airing their dirty laundry to any of their neighbors that would listen. They both still live in the town for now and according to my friend the guy is being openly harrassed and gay-bashed with people (including, but not limited to, children) throwing things at him, spitting at him, yelling slurs like "Fag" in his direction. It's so unbearable that he's desperate to move out of there as soon as his finances allow.
That's within an hours drive of Boston, in 2009, in the first of the still only 6 states where gay marriage is legal. So apparently it's not always true that we're immune from this kind of human ugliness just by living in the northeast. Scary as hell.

Nothin' like a good Christian woman calling people dumbasses!

She is truly the load her mother should have swallowed!!
And what was the feces comment about??!!
I really hope one of her kids turns out to be gay. Wait, nevermind, that probably wouldn't change her mind. She's so looney tunes she might do something to harm them and say that God told her to do it!

Oh you didn't know that all

Oh you didn't know that all gay people eat feces? Clearly this woman is an expert on all gay people and you could learn a thing or two from her. Snort.

Okay and "the load her mother should have swallowed" is so cracking me up and grossing me out at the same time.

I remember the counter

I remember the counter protests. I wish I could've gone. My little bro was in a production of The Laramie Project at his high school (just outside of Boston). I'm pretty sure that the Phelps clan showed up there to protest. Ick! (on a side note I thought it was super cool that a high school in the burbs was doing the play!!)
I really don't understand how anyone who calls themself religious can believe that god hates anyone. Especially those who supposedly believe in and strive to follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. His whole thing was loving everyone - especially sinners: love the sinner, hate the sin. I completely disagree that homosexuality is a sin, of course, but say for arguments sake that it was... if you believe in Jesus you're still not supposed to hate anyone. Ridiculous.
And yeah - "it's on like Donkey Kong" was freakin hilarious!

Watching it now, thanks so

Watching it now, thanks so much for posting this. Maybe when the film is out my group can do a showing here.

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