...And the drama continues...
Do you honestly think that your son is better off without a father? Do you see what kind of teen-aged boys are running around now-a-days?
You obviously have no foresight. If you did you would have realized that you were making a mistake before you plotted to get yourself knocked up...and you would have chosen someone that deserved to have this shit done to them...
If you have any idea how hard the rest of your life is going to be...if you have any maturity beyond your age...you will just get over this and be mature and let Kevin see his fucking baby...
Who the fuck are you to think you are the only person to deserve him? That YOU alone can give him everything that he needs...Do you even realize that if everything that you say about Kevin was, in fact, true, that most of that shit can be genetic? You might have created another Kevin. If you hate him so fucking much and hate so many of his qualities, how the fuck are you going to love your son? My dad was abusive,and I STILL don't know what I would have done without him in my life...he is a part of me, and I am better for being a part of him...
It's all fun and games until he's about three...then the real fun begins Liz...I've seen it happen a million times...with all of the people that are overpopulating this planet and all of the chaos in the world, this sweet little boy has to grow up without a Daddy cuz his mommy doesn't want to work it out and get along with him...how the fuck do you sleep at night Liz? seriously?
Why do all the stupid women have babies and leave the hard shit to the few of us left that care about something in this world besides ourselves?
Do yourself a favour and start listening to your brain rather than you hormones for a fucking day...if not for anybody, than at least for your son...
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any response at all with people like this is just engaging. you're smart not to play along. just be happy she's got this kevin all to herself.
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What an asshole. I particularly like the "Why do all the stupid women have babies and leave the hard shit to the few of us left that care about something in this world besides ourselves?" Try not to let it get to you. Sounds like she's in for the ride of her life.
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i'd love to ask her "so tell me more about this 'hard shit' that you deal with because *I* CHOSE TO HAVE A CHILD." this woman, for whatever reason, hates other women. everything she wrote to you is clearly irrational BS, bearsmama, but this part takes the cake. your role as a mother has NOTHING (And i repeat: NOTHING) to do with her life and choices whatsoever, but she's more than willing to condemn you just for the simple fact that you ARE a mother. it doesn't matter where the fuck her issues come from, because the bottom line is that they are HERS.
i'm so glad you let this dumb crap roll right off your back, because it's soooo not worth your time. but you know that already, so....long distance {high five}!!
"Do yourself a favour and start listening to your brain rather than you hormones for a fucking day..."
That is just what you did... If she doesn't understand that: poor girl (hmmh, had to to type poor three times, everytime I started to write porr... does that make any sense?).
You rock!
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...the lover, the dreamer, and me (Jim Henson)
Really, she thinks everyone else is dealing with the hard shit? Wow. She is a piece of work. And she is actually trying to say that abuse is genetic? And that having the abuser in the child's life is better than not?
Wow. And also, I really wonder why people think they can change other people's minds by cursing at them and insulting them. Must be the product of an abusive upbringing rearing its ugly head. Good example of why to keep them out out your child's life.
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this is beyond silly.
"he is a part of me, and I am better for being a part of him..."
eewwwwwww!
unless you are planning to stay single for the rest of his childhood, there is no reason your son won't have a father. and unless your ex plans to remain a scary abusive man, there is no reason he can't be involved in his son's life.
Who told you all this? maybe it's time to back off from communicating with this person for awhile. This is a very, very mean-spirited thing to say, you don't have to listen to it.
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Wow. I was chuckling all the way through this. You did the right thing by just handing it over to your attorney. I wouldn't even know how to respond to this seriously. This girl is obviously clueless about parenting and you. AVOID HER with all your will. She's extremely toxic.
But thanx for the good laugh! I'm sorry you even have to deal with tools like this. You are such a source of light, though, in your own world.
Looks like Kevin found a good match for his douchebaggery.
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You are so in control and so smart and so strong not to be riled up by this insanity. Pat yourself on the back.
it's just a series of rantings that contradict the line she wrote before it.
She probably sent it to prove to her twoo love that she really does love him, see? See how she tries to pick a fight with you in his defense? See? She loves him!!
ICK. You're so right to stay away!!
"Too weird to live. Too rare to die." - Hunter S. Thompson
hehehe guava, this made me laugh 
"see! I can bitch out innocent people to defend your honour!"
~Seriousness is a sickness; your sense of humor makes you more human, more humble.~
I have known people like this. Your FAX and she are so lucky they found each other. That's all the revenge you'd ever need, right there!
"Too weird to live. Too rare to die." - Hunter S. Thompson
Good work not taking on ms megabitch. I don't think i could let a crazy rant like that slide, but you are definately a better person for not even acknowledging that she sounds like a completely incoherent crackhead.
wwwpjhd? What would pj harvey do?
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yucky, crazy, irrational and so on. i'm so sorry you have to hear this crap
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my automatic response was "what a repulsive douche!" and then a few seconds later came the wave of sympathy, because she has NO FUCKING CLUE. poor girl actually thinks her lame judgements actually matter to you; little does she know that all her letter does is cement your status as Strong and In Control. seriously, she and K deserve each other. you know what's up, lady, so i know you're not even sweating this. i hope for this chick's sake that she grows up someday and realizes that it's NEVER okay to condemn someone for their personal choices. it's a longshot, but i hate to think of someone having so much hatred for others based solely on the fact that their choices are *different* from theirs.
siiiiighhh.
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Yeah, I don't plan on being single forever, I am justw aiting for a nice guy to come along that will love us both very well
And if BD showed any actual interest in changing his ways, I would be more than happy to have him be more involved with Bear. However, he hasn't shown me this, and infact keeps demonstrating the opposite. I f I really thought he was a good guy, and had something to offer Bear in the way of being a loving dad or a good role model, I would be glad to have him around more than I do.
Which brings me to the fact that BD sees Bear every Wednesday and every other weekend. They are supervised, but I have never been the one to cancel. I have never said "No you can't see him". We've waited on occasions for over an hour after the visit was supposed to start for him to show up.
the woman that sent me this is someone I don't even talk to, someone I havent had contact with since I left BD in July, so the fact that this came out of nowhere was totally wierd.
~Seriousness is a sickness; your sense of humor makes you more human, more humble.~