Diddle Her On The Roof

caffeine jones
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Joined: 11/17/2005

The story of the last 10 years: Six houses, each more communal & livable than the one before it; my family is thrown out because of the unstable housing market. It is slowly reassembling in my head, in the form of a musical theatre parody. I am a grumbling Grrrl Tevye, packing my family's ragged belongings, bidding a tearful farewell to one more beloved Anatevka.
Yet another landlord has kicked us out, so he can sell the house. We are trying to convince him to sell it to US,
since we are very happy here, and we have joined a really cool housing co-op, and are getting help with financing.
The landlord is not being as flexible as we had hoped he would. This means we have two weeks left in which to find another rental, or another house for sale at a better price, so three kids who live here are not out in the winter cold.
My savings are depleted by the last 2 moves (2 in the past year!), my kids' dad is homeless, so HE can't take 'em.
My eldest child - my lovely daughter - suffers a fresh heartache every time we move. She has become a young lady before my very eyes; a really ticked-off young lady who revels in the company of her neighborhood friends, and cries buckets
each time this happens.
This housing co-op is an amazing thing. http://www.portlandcollectivehousing.org/
ALL OF US SHOULD GET TOGETHER AND FIRE OUR LANDLORDS!
It's proving to be a really intense process, since this kind of homebuying is still unusual. It's good to be part of crafting a
better model for living, but scary. Clearly, we can't keep renting, and expect to be able to stay put long enough to prosper.
Pray for us, my sisters! Oh, and seriously: fire your landlord!

Creatress
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Joined: 01/29/2007
I wish you best of luck with

I wish you best of luck with this whole process!

Not all of us landlords are bad. I'm sorry yours is being less than cooperative.

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loveislikewoe
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Joined: 08/20/2005
Oh man! I can very much

Oh man! I can very much relate. Ours is 10 houses in 9.5 years, not including times when we had to live with Matt's parents and one of our friends (which also included moving our crap). I'm sure you will find something. I'll be thinking of you and your family. I hope things work out in such a way that you find a landlord who appreciates having you in her/his home and wants you to stay for as long as you want or that you can buy something, somehow. I've noticed that in my area, suddenly rentals are everywhere, where before they were harder to come by. I don't know if it's this way in most places. Best of luck to you! "Life may not be the party we hoped for but while we're here we might as well dance".- Maya Angelou

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Joined: 10/28/2006
Praying for you caff

I hope you and the babies get secure housing ASAP

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