Tim Wise on the "Radical Left"

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Obama's Victory and The Rage of the Barbiturate Left
By Tim Wise
November 10, 2008

My political entry into the left (and by this I mean the real left, beyond the Democratic Party) came a little more than twenty years ago in New Orleans, when, as a college student I became involved in the fight against U.S. intervention in Central America. In particular, the groups of which I was a part sought to end military aid to the death squad governments in El Salvador and Guatemala, and to block support for the contra thugs our nation was arming in Nicaragua, who by that time had already killed about 30,000 civilians in their war with the nominally socialist Sandinista government.

It was the first place where I came into contact with folks who defined themselves as radicals (I had grown up in Nashville, after all, where at that time, even finding "out" liberals was sometimes a challenge), and where I got to experience all the fascinating permutations of Marxism that the left had to offer. In addition to unaffiliated socialists (which I considered myself to be at the time), there were Trotskyites, old-line Leninists, Maoists, and even some bizarre Stalinists in the bunch. Excluding from consideration those among this number who turned out to be FBI spies, there were still plenty of real and interesting ideologues who had valuable insights to offer, even for those of us who didn't swallow their particular party line.

But despite being interesting, these folks also managed, at least for me, to demonstrate one of the key problems with the left in the U.S. Namely, for the sake of ideological purity few within the professional left expressed any joy about life, or any emotion whatsoever that wasn't rooted in negativity. They were like the political equivalent of quaaludes: guaranteed to bring you down from whatever partly optimistic place you might find yourself from time to time.

This was never so evident as the day I hopped into a car with one of the Stalinoids (a member of something called the Albanian Liberation League, which viewed the brutal regime of Enver Hoxha as a worker's paradise), and headed downtown for a rally to protest Contra aid. Once in the car, I asked about the music playing from his stereo. What was it? I wanted to know. He quickly explained that it was Albanian folk music, and the only music he listened to. I made some joke about how strange it was to be living in one of the greatest musical towns on Earth and yet to restrict oneself to a single genre of music (especially that favored by Albanian sheepherders), to which my revolutionary friend responded with a grunt and a scowl. Of course, because Comrade Stalin never much liked jazz.

The humorlessness of the far left--to which I remain connected ideologically if not organizationally--has always struck me as one of its greatest weaknesses. People like to laugh, they like to smile, they like to be joyful, and an awful lot of hardened leftists seem almost utterly incapable of doing any of these things. It's as if they have all taken a pledge that there should be no laughter until the revolution, or some such shit. No positivity, no hope, no happiness so long as people are still poor and exploited and being murdered by cops, and victimized by United States militarism, or performing as wage slaves for global capital, or eating meat, or driving cars. And they wonder why the left is so weak?

Now, in the wake of Barack Obama's victory these barbiturate leftists are back in full effect, lecturing the rest of us about how naive we are for having any confidence whatsoever in him, or for voting at all, since "the Democrats and Republicans are all the same," and he supports FISA and the war with Afghanistan, and all kinds of other messed up policies just like many on the right. Those of us who find any significance in the election of a man of color in a nation founded on white supremacy are fools who "drank the kool-aid," unlike they, whose clear-headed radical consciousness leads them to recognize the superior morality of Ralph Nader, or the pure "scientific wisdom of chairman Bob Avakian," or the intellectual profundity of their favorite graffiti bomb: "If voting changed anything it would be illegal." Yeah, and if body piercings and anarchy tats changed anything, they would be too, and then what would some folks do to be "different?" (Note: there is nothing wrong with either type of adornment, but getting either or both doesn't make you a revolutionary, any more than voting, that's all I'm saying).

These are people who think being agitators is about pissing people off more than reaching out to them. So they pull out their "Buck Fush" signs at their repetitively irrelevant antiwar demonstrations, or their posters with W sporting a Hitler mustache, because that tends to work so well at convincing folks to oppose the slaughter in Iraq. But effectiveness isn't what matters to them. What matters to them is raging against the machine for the sake of rage itself. Their message is simple: everything sucks, the earth is doomed, all cops are brutal, all soldiers are baby-killers, all people who work for corporations are evil, blah, blah, blah, right on down the line. It's as if much of the left has become co-dependent with despondency, addicted to its own isolation, and enamored of its moral purity and unwillingness to work with mere liberals. In the name of ideological asceticism, they spurn the hard work of movement building and inspiring others to join the struggle, snicker at those foolish enough to not understand or appreciate their superior philosophical constructs, and then act shocked when their movements and groups accomplish exactly nothing. But honestly, who wants to join a movement filled with people who look down on you as a sucker?

If we on the left want those liberals to join the struggle for social justice and liberation, we're going to have to meet people where they are, not where Bakunin would want them to be. For those who can't get excited about Obama, so be it, but at least realize that there are millions of people who, for whatever reason, are; people who are mobilized and active, and that energy is looking for an outlet. Odds are, that outlet won't be the Obama administration, since few of them will actually land jobs with it. So that leaves activist formations, community groups and grass-roots struggles. That leaves, in short, us. Just as young people inspired by the center-right JFK candidacy in 1960 ultimately moved well beyond him on their way to the left and made up many of the most committed and effective activists of the 60s and early 70s, so too can such growth occur now among the Obama faithful. But not if we write them off.

At some point, the left will have to relinquish its love affair with marginalization. We'll have to stop behaving like those people who have a favorite band they love, and even damn near worship, until that day when the band actually begins to sell a lot of records and gain a measure of popularity, at which point they now suck and have obviously sold out: the idea being that if people like you, you must not be doing anything important, and that obscurity is the true measure of integrity. Deconstructing the psychological issues at the root of such a pose is well above my pay grade, but I'm sure would prove fascinating.

The simple fact is, people are inspired by Obama not because they view him as especially progressive per se (except in relation to some of the more retrograde policies of the current president, and in relation to where they feel, rightly, McCain/Palin would have led us), but because most folks respond to optimism, however ill-defined it may be. This is what the Reaganites understood, and for that matter it's what Martin Luther King Jr. and the civil rights movement knew too. It wasn't anger and pessimism that broke the back of formal apartheid in the south, but rather, hope, and a belief in the fundamental decency of people to make a change if confronted by the yawning chasm between their professed national ideals and the bleak national reality.

In other words, what the 60s freedom struggle took for granted, but which the cynical barbiturate left refuses to concede, is the basic goodness of the people of this nation, and the ability of the nation, for all of its faults (and they are legion) to change. Look at pictures of the freedom riders in 1961, or the volunteers during Freedom Summer of 1964 and notice the dramatic difference between them and some of the seething radicals of today--whose radicalism is almost entirely about style and image more than actual analysis and movement building. In the case of the former, even as they stared down mobs intent on injuring or killing them, and even as they knew they might be murdered, they smiled, they laughed, they sang, they found joy. In the case of the latter, one most often notices an almost permanent scowl, a dour and depressing affect devoid of happiness, unable to appreciate life until the state is smashed altogether and everyone is subsisting on a diet of wheatgrass, bean curd and tempeh.

Hell, maybe I'm just missing the strategic value of calling people "useful idiots," or likening them to members of a cult, the way some leftists have done recently with regard to Obama supporters. Or maybe it's just that being a father, I have to temper my contempt for this system and its managers with hope. After all, as a dad (for me at least), it's hard to look at my children every day and think, "Gee, it sucks that the world is so screwed up, and will probably end in a few years from resource exploitation...Oh well, I sure hope my daughters have a great day at school!"

Fatherhood hasn't made me any less radical in my analysis or desire to see change. In fact, if anything, it has made me more so. I am as angry now as I've ever been about injustice, because I can see how it affects these children I helped to create, and for whom I am now responsible. But anger and cynicism do not make good dance partners. Anger without hope, without a certain faith in the capacity of we the people to change our world is a sickness unto death. It is consuming, like a flesh-eating disease, and whose first victim is human compassion. While I would never counsel too much confidence in far-right types to join the struggle for justice--and there, I think skepticism is well-warranted--if we can't conjure at least a little optimism for the ability of liberals and Democrats to come along for the ride and to do the work, then what is the point? Under such a weighty and pessimistic load as this, life simply becomes unbearable. And if there is one thing we cannot afford to do now--especially now--it is to give up the will to live and to fight, another day.

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This is so true!!

I long ago left 'radical' groups for this very reason. he is so on point:

Namely, for the sake of ideological purity few within the professional left expressed any joy about life, or any emotion whatsoever that wasn't rooted in negativity. They were like the political equivalent of quaaludes: guaranteed to bring you down from whatever partly optimistic place you might find yourself from time to time.

People like to laugh, they like to smile, they like to be joyful, and an awful lot of hardened leftists seem almost utterly incapable of doing any of these things. It's as if they have all taken a pledge that there should be no laughter until the revolution, or some such shit. No positivity, no hope, no happiness so long as people are still poor and exploited and being murdered by cops, and victimized by United States militarism, or performing as wage slaves for global capital, or eating meat, or driving cars. And they wonder why the left is so weak?

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Folks like these...are generally control freaks who just happened to fixate on the 'far left' is all...they are just like those wackos on the far right, just opposite sides of the same crazy coin.

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glad you liked it

i'm not sure their all crazies, though. i have some friends that are pretty "radical" and roll their eyes when i talk about Obama, etc.

my favorite part is where he talks about if folks want to be a part of the social justice movement, they are going to have to meet people where they are at (or something like that). we can't get together if we go around judging one another on their participation in the system (or lack there-of, IMHO, though I have a harder time with those conversations).

just makes me think of how a certain co-worker i have likes to make comments about zero population growth when folks talk about their kids or their desire for kids. i get that she feels strongly and will live by her values and i don't think she's nutty, but i do think its pretty damn insensitive and judgmental.

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zero population growth

your coworker may not be operating under this misapprehension, but i have seen too many "zero population growth" folks who are - zero population growth does not equal zero procreation {but instead equals replacement procreation}, so if she's for it, it doesn't automatically support pissing on people's joy in their kids/desire for kids.

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I STRONGLY disagree with this sentiment.

There are humorless radicals, for sure. But I think it's absolutely ridiculous to say that because radicals aren't behind Obama that we're humorless and pessimistic. Perhaps the problem with this article is that he's referring to Socialists and uses a freaking Stalinist as his example? I'm an anarchist and I refuse to "fall in line" with the Obama campaign just because the rest of the country is enthralled by him. That is not a good reason to support a candidate, just because everyone else thinks he's our "savior" (yes, i actually heard this on election night). I have a lot of joy in my life and most of it takes place in taking care of my friends and family outside of governmental systems. I don't believe that someone working in a two party system betrothed to corporate interests is going to liberate us. we have to liberate ourselves.

I really appreciate Wise's take on race relations in the US but this article is way off.

Also, I haven't posted in a long time...I started grad school. I just had to say something about this. I have plenty of joy and it is not derived from electing someone to "represent" me. While I appreciate this historical moment, I am not going to blindly fall in line with a political centrist.

Come on, Tim Wise, you can do better than that.

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I appreciate your response

and I posted this in part to hear what folks who identify outside of the political system think about it.

my question to you though is if he is so way off - where is the movement building in the anarchist movement? where is the organizing? i encounter a lot of folks who seem to want to change the whole world at once because it all sucks so bad in their minds yet i don't encounter a lot of folks who can tell me what their proposed steps are to get there.

i am trying to understand, not being flip - so i hope its not taken wrong. what Tim Wise says does resonate with me because for years i've read and heard how we must tear down the status quo, recreate the paradigm or whatever, but i wonder how we get there if we don't step up and speak out within that paradigm.

Tim Wise also talks extensively about how hard we will need to work to hold Obama accountable and I also get behind that sentiment. i can understand that folks want to drop out and create their own community and can certainly find joy and fulfillment in that - i just don't understand how dropping out does any one any good except those who are dropping out whether or not they are finding joy or hating on "the man"

anyway - this is just MHO and I am the type that works in systems to change things, not outside them. I see this same tendency in Obama and yet I don't see him as my "savior" - and at the same time I have to honor the collective power of those who support and celebrate him, a lot of people who never thought before that they had a voice in the system, now finally feel like they do.

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I don't work within the system

because the system is broken beyond repair. I work outside of the system to build a world that values me and my family. The anarchist movement is very organized, small, but organized. Seattle in 1999? the RNC in 2008? Almost any world bank/imf/G-8 protest? all anarchists. The RNC protests were incredibly organized, not that you would have known it from the dominant media. It was the synthesis of two years of organizing that led to the party in the streets of St. Paul. and the folks who organized it, people I knew, were promptly arrested and charged with TERRORISM for organizing a non-violent direct action.

But it's soooo much more than organizing against. We organize extensively to build a world where we can represent OURSELVES and not rely on others to do that for us. This is what Tim Wise and most people ignore. Food not Bombs? providing vegetarian meals to the homeless and hungry, not in a soup kitchen but on the streets. Anarchist Black Cross and Critical Resistance? Organizing to abolish or find alternatives to the racist prison-industrial complex. Indy Media? Building a network of media by the people, for the people. I'm part of an anarchist group that has movie showings, book groups, anti-oppression training, art-making parties, childcare sharing, skill-sharing (sharing skills of how to compost, garden, make home brew, fix a bike, etc), and so much more I can't even fit it in. How is this not organizing? We actively invite community members in, especially oppressed communities. How is this not movement building? Yes Obama built a movement, he built it on millions of dollars and backed by corporate interests. we do ours with nothing but our time, energy and skills.

I don't feel that i'm "dropping out" as you say, I'm working my ass off to build an infrastructure and world where everyone can have a voice, their own voice, not a millionaire's voice hundreds of miles away. I'm not denying the historic nature of this moment. I welled up during his acceptance speech. But Obama is a centrist and I'm not going to put my faith in someone to speak for me whose policies I don't agree with. I know this doesn't make me popular here and it's why I didn't post so much during the build-up of the election. But up until now nobody had directly insulted my political belief system. I think I understand why Pattycakes left before the election.

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wow I didn't mean to

wow

I didn't mean to publicly insult your belief system. I actually wanted to talk about it and learn but wtf ever. Sorry, you seem to be proving tim's argument to me actually. Happy trails

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yes, you do "work within the system"

based on what you said above - you are in graduate school, and unless i am totally misunderstanding your use of the term, "the system" is what you are working within to get that degree. i am not opposed to grassrootiness. i think it can rock the house, but i am all too aware that it can also lead to exactly the kind of self-congratulatory condescension that mr. wise is describing and ms. pinball was stung by in your response. even if you weren't in grad school, even if you were living on an entirely self-sufficient commune in the wilds of maine, you would still be working "within in the system" insofar as the existence of the nation-state the land was in and its governance and infrastructure would be a huge part of what made your commune possible in the first place. context. context is not something you can opt out of, and people insisting that they can and are thereby rendered better/more radical/more responsible/more engaged humans is exactly what the above-posted essay is addressing. to my mind, the insistence on the illusory insularity/purity of the radical left is hella akin to BOTH the "moral superiority" of the radical right AND the myopia of unacknowledged and vehemently denied white or straight or class or able-bodied privilege - a tiresome, costly luxury not available to those of us sans said privileges.

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Thanks for being a libra

Thanks for being a libra voice of reason once again, mamaneen

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thanks for seeing me as such, lucy p.

i seriously appreciate it very much.

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I am a political centrist

I think where we fall on the political spectrum has to do with personality, beliefs and experiences. There is no right or wrong.

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as a humorless feminist

Wink i'm leary of any accusations of lack of humor on the left, but nonetheless, i found myself feeling much of what mr. wise had to say. as a progressive living in the sf bay area, world capital of self-righteous radical leftists with giant holes in their analyses, most all of my patience with internecine strife has been rather thoroughly abraded away. if we're going to keep this country or the world from being rushed special delivery to hell, we have to figure out how to work together. i'm not terribly good at agreeing to disagree myself, so i know we have quite a challenge ahead of us, and i know that according to many, many folks, i, too, am humorless. perhaps, though, we can find a way to work together across the humor{less} spectrum in the name of doing what good we each and all can do?

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oh yeah im humorless too. In

oh yeah im humorless too. In many ways, I fall into this category but particularly with regard to interpersonal violence. We joke about not being able to joke about anything at the crisis line.

I'll say again that it's up to us to hold Obama accountable and that is going to be hard. I don't want him to disappoint but he will in one way or another (WTF is clean coal? Does if really exist?I don't buy it) and we will need to hold him to his heart and ideals or at least the heart and ideals I believe he showed during the campaign

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"particularly with regard to interpersonal violence" {tangenty}

i am soooo guilty of making flip remarks about wanting to do violence when yet another unjust idiocy comes to my attention. one of my sisterfriend's is always chastizing me about it, and i am trying to work on it 'cuz i so don't want my kid saying for example, "those mean people want to take away people's right to marry, and i just want to bash their heads in with a stick!" {yes, that's one of my stock expressions of violence.} this is work, though. it's a challenge, but i am trying to improve communication in this way.

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He makes a good point

about people being attracted to Obama's hopefulness, and that there's reason to hope in Obama.

I think where his argument fails to move me is where he wants the cynical barbiturate left to concede the basic goodness of the people of this nation. Ok, maybe they should, but then shouldn't Wise concede the basic goodness of the barbiturate left?

Also, I think it is possible that some people actually enjoy looking like:"permanent scowl, a dour and depressing affect devoid of happiness, unable to appreciate life until the state is smashed altogether and everyone is subsisting on a diet of wheatgrass, bean curd and tempeh" *shrug* and I think that is ok too. Life takes all kinds. I'm more attracted to this sort myself than the radical right.

But probably what put me off his argument was not so much the bigger picture stuff, but his interaction with an individual as described in the fourth paragraph: "Once in the car, I asked about the music playing from his stereo. What was it? I wanted to know. He quickly explained that it was Albanian folk music, and the only music he listened to. I made some joke about how strange it was to be living in one of the greatest musical towns on Earth and yet to restrict oneself to a single genre of music (especially that favored by Albanian sheepherders), to which my revolutionary friend responded with a grunt and a scowl. "

In order to get positivity from people, one needs to be compassionate, nice and also positive. It seems like Wise could have said "Oh, why Albanian music?" or "Oh, this song is very pretty" or just anything else upbeat and positive about this person's decision to listen to Albanian music and only Albanian music. What's the harm, after all, to Wise, if this guy wants to inundate himself with Albanian music? Now, if Wise had said something non-critical, upbeat and friendly about this person's choice of music and the retort had still been a cynical grunt that would have been different.

So, yeah, I agree that it is totally hard to maintain a perspective of imminent environmental collapse with no hope for a future and that it is generally healthier and more attractive to maintain a sense of hope for more justice in the world--on an individual level Wise needs to be the change he wants to see instead of judging.

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I do feel like you. I'm a

I do feel like you. I'm a perpetual peacemaker and diplomat. I think Wise is more of a hothead. Nonetheless, I do have a hard time when folks ignore at best or disparage at worst the collective power of those who believe on Obama. When I see Jesse Jackson openly weeping live on my television and then hear "radical left" (white) folks make comments about the cult of Obama, I get pretty damn pissed off. If I had Wise's platform, I might be letting some shit fly too.

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Agreed, and thanks for posting something of Tim Wise's

that I actually didn't completely agree with. That was refreshing.

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Sorry it took me so long to respond

I think he makes some good points here, and I also think that he could have filtered this a lot more before he spit it out.

I went through a short-lived anarchy phase before I decided that I was a Marxist - which might have had a lot to do with my attending Evergreen State for a while. I was so vehemently against capitalism that I decided to read Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged, and I spent the first 100 pages cursing the day that she was born. After that, something started to make sense and by the end, I was totally converted, and I registered as a libertarian. To me, the far right and the far left are not so very far apart at all - and I think of these philosophies more as a cycle of thinking, rather than a pole.

I've since realized that socialism is a great THEORY and that objectivism is also a great THEORY, but none of these things actually work in practice. In my quest to be constantly correct, I have sought out method after method of possible social/economic construction, and though much of what I have read sounds like great theory too, it's easy to see how it would fail in practice. The problem is that I, nor nobody else I know, actually knows of a system that works. At this point, I'm kind of leaning towards the whole king/queen with subjects idea again, cause at least some shit would get done, and when it's good - it's REALLY good, which might kind of be worth the really bad, as compared to the blase bullshit that we constantly live with, where change requires mountains of paperwork.

Anyway, I get this stuff, because I was trying my hardest not to get too excited about Obama. Even with all that trying, I cried the day he was elected - and I cried because there is hope there. I don't think he's centrist...but wtf, I really don't even know what that means. I feel hope with him because he leads with his heart, and that's what we need - because that's what is left out of all of the theories and other bullshit. They are rational and well-thought out, but not a single one of them has heart.

I'm not sure if anybody saw it, but he's taking a little bit of flack right now because on his transition page, the bottom hiring line (you know - we will not discriminate on the basis of sex, gender, etc..) has included sexual orientation, and gender identification. Many newspapers have already written about how America is not ready for "that kind of change" yet. Wtf? He is the best we are going to get at this point, and I am damned proud of him already. I finally have a little bit of faith in my country.

You know, the one thing I was also thinking after I read this article was - maybe I am far left on some issues, and maybe I am far right on others, but good fucking thing that I am not allowed to be making the decisions for everyone in this country based on my pretty far-reaching, rebellious and outrageous ideas sometimes. So-called "centrist" thinking works because it tries to find the middle road, which can often be the most beneficial road for everyone involved.
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I read that about gender

I read that about gender identity but hadn't heard any mainstream media about it. I was blown away and impressed. I mean, that's some change for sure. so what if he can't fix everything. Who can, like you said? At least he can challenge shit and after the mandate he was given, folks have to listen whether they want to or not.

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Yeah -

And I might be sheltered over here, cause I am just hearing people rave about him, and celebrate his candidacy, and haven't really heard any boo-hooing from anybody. I'm sure it will come soon enough. (Or at least my negative liberal side thinks so. hehe)

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