I'm Bi. Big whoop. I fell in love with another single mama who used to live in my apartment complex- she instigated the whole thing but she doesn't become Bi unless she's drinking, and I can't deal with it... She's fucking with my head and emotions when I'm feeling really vulnerable because of the situation. But I'm pretty proud of myself for finally coming out of the closet... I had a girlfriend before 7 years ago but she was really into PDA and I just could not handle it... maybe this is karmic, I don't know. I'm still not really into PDA because I am pretty private about stuff like that, I don't like voyeurs. Any other queer mamas out there who want to converse about the whole coming out thing? Or give advice because this woman has been kind of shredding me emotionally lately AND she got a "boyfriend" but still calls me up when, you guessed it, she's drinking and tells me she wants to have babies with me and that she can see us together at 40 and that she thinks we should move in together and have one big family but OH WAIT let's call up our ex or current boyfriends to have a threesome because she wants to have a surrogate penis. WHATEVER!!! I think I'm going to try my best to stay away... omg she's gorgeous though- a part-time model and definitely the "Prettiest Girl in the Room" (anyone catching the Flight of the Conchords reference????) And apart from her bastard qualities I just plain love her, personality and all. Of course I would find a girl bastard.... Rats!