whoa, what happened?

Submitted by bike n burley mama on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 3:30am.

there are an awful lot of food recipes all of a sudden!!...making me HUNGRY.
and, also
nate read my hipmama blog and found out about my crush. rat bastard. for some reason, i am ANGRY. i always feel like this is my place for support, laughs, information, friends, and damnit - I DESERVE IT. he also read my email somehow. grrrrr
ANY way. when i first realized i had a crush, it was weird, it made me feel amazing - alive (in a different way?) and beautiful. now since i know he knows, every time i see my crush, i am not enjoying it and i burn with embarrassment, wondering if nate has told him about it. grrrrr again.

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Submitted by bike n burley mama on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 1:40pm.

nate and i discussed his invasion of privacy, and i made it VERY CLEAR that hip mama and my email is my place and i use it on my time (ha ha) and that if he still wants to read things that i don't invite him to read, then he better be prepared to deal with how he feels about what he reads his damn self - i am not explaining my feelings and what i write to a snoop. so there.
thank you as always for the support Smiling

Submitted by CordeetMente on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 1:19pm.

That is a real shame that you have lost that sense of privacy and safety that many of us enjoy here. I would be thoroughly upset with DH if he were to read something here that I hadn't invited him to. I think that it is the equivalent of reading a private journal, regardless of the fact that it is posted online - it is posted in a community separate from our spouses & I think that's a boundary that deserves respect! Keep posting & try to regain the enjoyment of seeing your crush!

"I have no country. As a woman, I want no country. As a woman my country is the whole world." - Virginia Woolf

Submitted by meg on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 12:17pm.

That sucks. Crushes are fun and harmless. I suspect that my DH has "checked up" on me here at least once and I find I censor myself because of that. Bah.

Submitted by leighanastasia on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 6:34am.

in a different sort of way. a while back i saw that my mom was reading a personal blog...totally pissed me off. like that was my special place...

and i agree with you and dc this IS a special place, you end up feeling weird when people are spying on you sort of and seeing what you are writing.

chin up. crushes are cool.

Walking around an
early spring garden-
going nowhere.
-Kyoshi

Submitted by dragon chic on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 6:42am.

crushes save lives! there's nothing wrong with an innocent healthy crush!

people make it out to be something that it's not.

it's about human connection, a tight ass & a smile! have fun with it.

people who come to this board just to read about bit's n' pieces of someone else's life are weaksauce. i don't like people who have nothing to contribute to the world, being a taker for the sake of taking isn't cool. *and i'm not judging the actual peeper's, you know what i'm saying here*.

just ask me, and i'll tell you.

take care,

dc

space age disco healer

Submitted by BeforeDreaming on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 2:58pm.

"people who come to this board just to read about bit's n' pieces of someone else's life are weaksauce. i don't like people who have nothing to contribute to the world, being a taker for the sake of taking isn't cool."

*word* to this.

(Labrys)
Lilypie Expecting a baby Ticker

Submitted by dragon chic on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 6:30am.

hey bike,

what did he say about it?

i think eveyone here would agree with you. this is a special place, i feel the same way.

on a personal note: i know that my ex has read every word i've said, and now he's acting all pissed off! he yelled at me for two days over making him out to be a "sick guy"!. *even though he is one?!*. give me a break.

if you have the guts to read it, have the common sense to understand it.

take care,

dc

space age disco healer

Submitted by Etta Candy on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 4:37am.

that really sucks.

re the recipes, it's a spammer leaving comments on recipes, bumping them up to the recent posts.
"All persons, whether living or dead, are entirely coincidental." Kurt Vonnegut

Submitted by Ericka on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 4:21am.

well that just sucks. sorry to hear that.

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