you've told me what i have needed to hear. i should use it as a silver lining and address the issues directly. i feel like i have been so "good" about this for so long and this is an easy way for me to be really "bad" and get out some of my anger (misdirected of course). i love hearing the nos and reasons why and it's helped.

thanks!

So what if someone tells you to stop. Could you?

People need to be touched. For their health, they need to be touched. It is abusive to deny intimacy to your partner, and in my opinion, what your husband is doing is abusive...whether under the guise of religion or not. I think that he would benefit from some serious counseling, and so would your relationship.
Your husband has to change. You don't deserve this. You made a pack to stick together for better or for worse, and you should give it your best shot...but you've gotta be touched. It's just a human necessity. No cyber fucking is going to satisfy your needs, btw, so this will just begin to snowball if you don't get some counseling for it now.

Sorry that your husband is having some mid-lifey crisis. You don't deserve it, but maybe there is some growth for you in it. (Yeah...I gotta try and see something positive here, sorry). Can you get counseling with him? And not through a Catholic person?

"The Universe Molds Itself To Prove Your Beliefs"

Just stop. Focus on figuring out some shit between you and husband.

That old flame is showing your life disrespect if he flirts with a woman he knows is married. Loser.

OK, did that help?

"When you're so high you're dropping your stash, well, you're too high."

Quit that now. Seriously. Unless you plan to have a moment divulging the indescretion to your partner, you'd better just quit now while you aren't in too deep.

i think that online cheating is cheating. there is no grey area. that said, i remember you, and i will reiterate my advice that your problems with your dh have nothing to do with catholicism. your need for intimacy will win out over any sense of fairness or loyalty to any man. you've been dealing with this for a long time. your need is human, i'm surprised you lasted this long.

"Say what you will about the sweet miracle of unquestioning faith, I consider a capacity for it terrifying and absolutely vile!" Kurt Vonnegut

so stop.

You know this old fling just wants to get in your pants, even if only your cyber pants. So stop doing this.

Oh yah! do the naughty messaging bit with your husband instead, that'll help re-kindle the flame in your marriage.

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