Surgery Tomorrow...all sort of vibes needed
Tomorrow at 11 a.m. I go into surgery for this kidney stone. They're going to put me to sleep, then go up through my urethra, into my left ureter and blast the stone into smaller pieces with a laser. I'll be back home that evening and be up to snuff (except for a crazy uncomfortable stent in my ureter) within 48 hours. It's a pretty common procedure with a high success rate. However, nothing has been going our way when it comes to much of anything lately...actually, everything has gone the opposite direction of our way and has been snowballing into one giant catastrophe for the past month. Needless to say, I'm somewhat pessimistic about the whole thing. We're having to pay for the procedure out-of-pocket, because every single place we've gone for some form of government help has denied us due to a loophole that we managed to squeeze through. We cannot afford any complications, as paying for this is wiping out most of our life savings and making our move to New York much more inaccessible. Emotionally, I can't stand to have anything else go wrong.
If you think of it, send lots of good thoughts towards Texas tomorrow...I need every bit of optimism I can get, as I seem to have run out of it for myself.
Vibes to ya mama. I'm sorry you're having a rough time.
Military justice is to justice what military music is to music.
~ Groucho Marx
Headed your way. Laser beam vibes, in fact.
"Just because you're better than me, doesn't mean I'm lazy. Just because you're going foward, doesn't mean I'm going backwards. . . Just because I dress like this, doesn't mean I'm a communist" --Lars Fredrickson and the Bastards
I hope all goes well.
Many blessings to you...who knows maybe something really good will come out of it? Worry certainly won't help, so you could try having faith that something unexpected will happen that is better than you could have planned yourself?
Did you want to move to the city? New York really is not so great anyway. No offense to New Yorkers, its nice in some ways ... I guess I'm from Boston/ New Hampshire and the whole Red Sox thingy, you know... but I did live in NYC for two years and it just wasn't for me.
Hey I was just thinking of you! Imagine that. I'll be vibin ya like crazy. As for the finance part of it; it's only money. As John Lennon says " you can't take nothin with ya but your soul". I try to remind myself of this daily.
sounds painful.
healthy vibes and speedy recovery vibes comin atcha.
***the United States is one of only four out of 168 countries studied to not have some form of paid family leave for new moms. We join Swaziland, Papua New Guinea, and Lesotho in not having that policy in place. ***
recently my SIL had a big surgery and was going to have to pay out of pocket. she went to the hospital to try to set up a payment plan and the lady was rude. asked to speak to her superviser and WHallah! the superviser did some financial paper work with her and turns out her income shook out to give her a discount... A BIG ONE. she doesn't have to pay the hospital at all. it doesn't hurt to try.
good luck. i'll be thinking of you.
"Before I was a Mom I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body." ~Anonymous
vibes mama.
Sunflower the unflower
Sunflower the unflower
*****VIBES*****
It's a gift to be simple. It's a gift to be free." Shaker hymn.
every vibe needed comin your way. hope things go well today. i'll be thinkin of ya.
Jessica
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly."~~~~~Richard Bach
Jessica
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind~~Dr.Seuss
for a uneventful surgery and for a speedy recovery.
**vibes**
"we seek not rest but transformation. We are dancing through each other as doorways." ~ Marge Piercy
I don't do the dishes, I throw them in the crib.
-Courtney Love
it will be fine. it will go smoothly, you will be surprised by how easy it is, the bill will be smaller than expected, no complications.....
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