Miscarriage/Taking a break
We've been without a landline or internet service for a couple of days due to vanadlism of our neighborhood routing site. Maybe that is okay. I needed some time with my own thoughts...
I went in for a CVS test on Monday morning and it was discovered that I had miscarried. My doctor's office squeezed me in for a quick consult and then the doctor managed to get me in for a D&C at the hospital that afternoon.
In the span of about 6 hours my husband and I went from giddy excitement to heartbreak.
Some of you know my history and some don't. This was an unexpected pregnancy. We're "reproductively" challenged. I'd worked though a lot of that grief and really felt at peace with our little family when I found myself pregnant. It seems like a cruel cosmic joke.
I'm going to take a few days off HM. I need to spend some time holding my husband's hand. I need to hug and love up my sweet little girl.
Please keep us in your thoughts, Mamas.
i am so sorry mama. I know the heartbreak of miscarriage several times. sending you loving vibes. spending time with your family is the best way to try and releive your pain. I'll be thinking of you. stay strong mama.
Jessica
We do not inherit the land from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children....don't know who to give the credit to saw it outside my library.
Jessica
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind~~Dr.Seuss
Oh, honey. I am so very sorry. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do. Check your PM's.
"Step off my big ass."
- Anthromom
very sorry for your loss. will be thinking about you.
* I'm all fight and no flight *
.Take as much time as you need. We're here for you and HUG the munchkin. (dh too)
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I am so sorry for your loss.
When did the lemons learn the same creed as the sun?
When did smoke learn how to fly?
--Pablo Neruda
When did the lemons learn the same creed as the sun?
When did smoke learn how to fly?
--Pablo Neruda
i'm so sorry for your loss.
"what if the hokey pokey IS what its all about?" - random bumper sticker
"Convictions are more dangerous enemies of truth than lies." - Nietzsche
That is just plain unfair. I am so sorry for your loss, and for the whole cosmic roller coaster situation.
Hug your little girl and your husband. Find small, good things to slowly build back your happiness. Eat good food. Watch good movies. Sit in the sunshine.
We will be thinking of you...
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Live and let live.
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"It takes a village, people!"
- Carson Kressley
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, sunshine.
(((hugs))) to you and your family.
"Here I am. Rock you like a hurricane."
-The Scorpions
"Here I am. Rock you like a hurricane."
-The Scorpions
i'm sorry. you'll be in my thoughts.
"All you need is ignorance and confidence; then success is sure." --Mark Twain
"You know, i could write a book. And this book would be thick enough, to stun an ox." -- Laurie Anderson
Here's a big hug coming your way.
"Everything looks perfect from far away." - The Postal Service
i'm so sorry, mama. my heart just sank when i read this. big big hugs to you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.
I hope that you are able to take the time to really heal from this with your family & friends around you. Please know that you're in my thoughts & that we are all here for you on HM - so lean on us as often as you need. Once again, I am very sorry for your loss.
"I have no country. As a woman, I want no country. As a woman my country is the whole world." - Virginia Woolf
"I have no country. As a woman, I want no country. As a woman my country is the whole world." - Virginia Woolf
"If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament." - Rose F. Kennedy
oh sweet sunshine daydream i am so so so sorry.
i am so sorry. i have more to say, we can chat sometime.
i know the angst. the sorrow. the love.
be good to yourself.
I am so sorry to see this. I know that this has been a tough road for you and this latest turn seems so unexpectedly cruel. Please take good care and be gentle with yourself, we are here, we care, we will welcome you back when you come up for air. Vibes and sympathy coming your way.
Thats truely terrible, feeling so sad for you, mama.
i am so, so sorry. i hope you find some healing in the arms of those you love...
"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass." ~Maya Angelou
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Your "prescription" is duly noted. It is exactly what I had in mind to take care of myself.