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Freedamomma
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Do we have moderators? How do we get in touch with them. I really want someone to take that rude mean, and offensive photo posted by SecretHipmama off of batgirl's blog. Is it impossible?

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I thin there are two ways.

1. Batgirl could delete the whole blog.

2. yes if you contact bee she can take it down.

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How to contact Bee?

I have no email addy for her. I have tried checking around the site but can find nothing. Thanks for the input.

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Sugerhiccup!!

We need you!! I know you contacted Bee once. How do you go about that?

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bee@hipmama.com
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This will take some time. th

This will take some time. the quickest, sadly, is for batgirl to delete the whole blog. Hopefully she got the support she needed. And can try to ignore that ignorant post.

I used to be somebody, but wanted to be someone else.

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It will take a while

and may be impossible but worth the try. Unfortunately, my concern is that batgirl may have been so hurt and offended that she may not want to return to hipmama for a while...I know I wouldn't. I think the pic would be not only offensive to her but, also offensive and hurtful to other people, who may be in that same place, and just not talking about it. That's the only reason why I am perseverating on this issue, even though it might seem easier to just drop it. I am gonna try emailing Bee, and if that doesn't work, we will just have to hope that it gets deleted eventually by batgirl. Thanks for the help.

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can't we do it?

if we log in as secrethipmama can't we edit or delete a comment?

Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.
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not if it has been replied to

not if it has been replied to.

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Dammit

I never should have replied last night. I was just so freaked out I had no choice.

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I'm about to try...

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Rachaelsmama

Rachaelsmama, here is how we can delete it. First, you have to delete your replies to the posted photo. Then Fart O. Z, will be able to remove hers. Then, someone logs on as secrethipmama and deletes the comment/photo.

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actually, now there are more

actually, now there are more comments. So writermom would have to go first. What I meant to say is you can delete a comment if it has not been replied to. (maybe too complicated now)

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I think you got it!

This just might work. This is a result of the last Hipmama drama that took place about a year ago, in which people were saying things and then going back to delete it. Anyway, Rachealsmama, don't feel bad. I was pretty mad when I first saw it too, and would have done the same thing. You were standing up for what you believe. We can try this though. I am willing to keep plugging away. I am going grocery shopping, but I will certainly try.It's confusing but nomad may be right. I think it just has to be done in the right order to delete:
1. Rachealsmama
2. Fart O
3. Secrethipmama reply
4. Secrethipmama pic post.

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it doesn't work that way.

you can't delete a reply, only edit it, and only if it wasn't replied to. our only choices are battgirl deleting it, and bee getting involved.

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hey hey hey calm down

the whole identity can be deleted. just sign in as secrethipmama, edit account and delete it. done.
battgirl now knows how the rest of us feel, that counts for something.

but you know, from what happened a couple of months ago with the other pregnant mama who was aborting, and what happened to hilseb with the breastfeeding thread, this will not stop people from being malicious and self serving. you will remember taht people created new identities just to fuck with vulnerable mamas. secrethipmama was a convenient cloak, but these people will find a way. let's just remove that cloak and promise to confront malicious posters when we encounter them. ok?

RIP secrethipmama.

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