why did i let myself feel like we were doing good?

mamanopajamas's picture

why was i hopeful about the jobs & everything?

the landlord just came by

30 days because his family is moving in due to their bankruptcy & losing their house....


shadeshaman's picture

Uh, you're in California, right? Best to research your options. Don't think they can evict you with 30 days notice because the fam is moving in (anyone could say that to get people out)--see if there's a rent board in your area, see if there's a "lawyers in the library" program.


(apparently, a 30-day notice is just that, a NOTICE. It gives you 30 days to respond. It is not a final eviction judgment.)

"Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself; but talent instantly recognizes genius"--Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

mamanopajamas's picture

ahhh Yes, Thanks, so much, Shade .

I read all the links & got it. I am only going to make him have to EVICT us if I can't find a place. the thing is I haven't been here a year so he ONLY needs to give me the 30 days AND if he is gonna move in to the front house, I do NOT want to be here. recall he.is.a.jackass.

he was threatening to sue me today already and I will NOT live here with him in the same space being negative & belligerent.

I AM going to find a place and we are going to be in a better place.

 "Do not speak--unless it improves on silence." ~ buddhist saying (wow - my email on file was so old - it was from the old hipmama email!)