bearsmama's blogerrraggghhhhh!terrible twos (???) and food food food (long, but please help and shed some light!! I'm desperate!)Where has my sweet little boy gone? Bed time now, unless he falls asleep nursing (which is rare these days) consists of this routine: He
I need a job...I feel so lost!alright. I don't live in the city I am trying to get a job in, and i don't drive. I am going insane having to rely on my parents for everything again. Including transportation. Ugh. I am having a really hard time finding anyone willing to rent out an apartment to someone who doesn't have a job yet. But how am I supposed to get to work? I don't really want to just start a job here then quit a few weeks later once I find us a home. I need resume help. I am 22. I have no "career path" and no post-secondary education yet. Hell, i still haven't decided what I want to go to school for yet. I have hopped around from retail job to retail job since I started working as a teenager, with a few brief stints at halfdecent offices. I would really like to work only part time..I doubt thats a possibility though, as I don't really have the experience to get into a higher paying place that would give me enough money to pay rent and provide for my son and I while only working part time. BD doesn't help at all with child support, so thats not even a little bit of help... I am so frustrated. Can anyone give me any advice at all? I don't even know where to start!
Polyamory...discuss!I have been seeing a guy over the last little while that I really quite like. However, I am starting to notice something. While in the past I used to be capable of being into one person at a time...I'm not anymore. Actually...I mett a super sweet guy on the bus home from the city this weekend(post 24 hours of MAMA TIME!) and we're going out this weekend. I don't know why my libido is on overdrive like this. I am wondering what you Mamas think about this. I think if everyone is open an honest, maybe having a few lovers might not necessarily be a terrible thing. I know some friends of mine run this way and all seem to be quite happy. Discuss
Birth Control..yikes!So... I have a Mirena IUD up in my drawer that I had gotten not long after Bear was born and still never had it put it. I have an appointment tomorrow to go have it inserted, since it will be day two of my period...but I'm TERRIFIED. I have read a lot of horror stories about them...and I really don't want to have huge cramps from insertion and a lot of bleeding this weekend because I am going out (one of the rare Mama nights *grin*). I am also a little wierded out by the hormone idea. Pre-Bear I had used a pill, which I forgot to take half of the time, anyways(ohhh, those old stoner days..)...but they sent me for a real loop. I was grouchy ALL the time and had no sex drive whatsoever. At all. NONE. And I am a sex lover. So I'm counting pills out. What have you ladies tried?? What would you recommend or not recommend??
vibes :DAlright Mamas...I need some of those super powered vibes of yours! I am very tired of being a tropical animal living in a temperate climate. I neeeeeed to get mine and Bearmans hiney's to Brasil...for the sake of my sanity! Howvever, there is the small pebble in my shoe that is his father.
Where we're atHello Mamas! Where to start? the
Coming back home...(New news and a little ho!)Well... So much has gone on with us, as well! Bear is WALKING! All on his own! He can walk across an entire room now!And he just learned to drink from a straw! My Baby! He's getting so big! He keeps taking up more and more and more of our bed! Speaking of bed...
Natural Mamas
You don't have to be raw, just interested in making the world a better place
I can barely believe it...(another birthday HO extravaganza)
Climbing out from under my rock for an update(birthdays, cops, men and grats)Fiiiiirst of all...the site looks fabulous I've been guilty of lurking lately (again). Reading, but not saying anything. Partially because I have nothing to say, and partially because Mash got me started on the Twilight series and I became so addicted that doing anything else besides reading once Bear was in bed seemed like a complete waste of time. Talk about escapism... Great books though!
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