My husband and his ex have finally finshed the parenting agreement, and we can all finally move on with our lives. I didn't post here because this blog was being watched, and we all know custody agreement issues can get really heated. I'm hesitant to post any details or anything because I think we all really do just want to move on with our lives, and I don't want to neg it out. However, I cannot deny that my feelings are still pretty raw about how it all happened. A time line of sorts
-my husband and announced our engagement in 09-crazy custody sitution blew up 2 weeks later-5.11 judge signs agreement.
My husband's ex came across very vindictive and angry, and arrogant. I am not sure, but I don't think she feels that way anymore. I think in a weird way we could almost be friends. My husband has two kids with two baby moms, and when this one isn't the arrogant, angry, vindictive combo, we actually prefer to deal with her.
I guess what I am feeling is a lot of resentment towards her, but I also feel a pull to let that go, because I know that a lot of us at various times in life have made lame decisions based on anger and fear and I know there's no point in living in the past. I also think that she is a really talented artist, and I respect that.
I think that everyone is happy with the agreement though.
So, coming out of the perma lurk I have been in for a while now. Reading, but not posting I saw a sharp decline in posters especially after the FB page, and a couple of new to me posters here and there. I don't post on FB because I use my husband's account and it feels weird to post under his name in that group. I always used his account because I am not really active on FB, and never really wanted to be until the Hm group got active over there.
I definitely want to post again here though!
