lunarmama's blogLove the new banner but.....Does anyone know what happened to all the past blogs? Mine have all disappeared...Susan?? Help!
Grandma is awake and off the ventilator!W00! Thank you mamas for your vibes. Next step is to get her some help. Which will probably include lawyers we can't afford...but she's OK. She's OK. *SIGH OF RELIEF* lm
Vibes request. (UPDATED)I know, i"m such a poor weather friend...but I really need your vibes mamas. My Grandma (and the woman who raised me for the first 7 years of my life) was rushed to the hospital a few hours ago. She is in a coma but stable for the moment. I'm thousands of miles away with NO WAY to get there. The really effed up part? I'm supposed to visit her in 2 weeks....... I really hope I get the chance... **** Latest news is that she opened her eyes, squeezed the doctor's hands and wiggled her tos when asked. She's improving but still nowhere close to out of harms way. They are pretty sure she had a stroke (she also had a seizure in the ambulance on the way to the hospital) and has meningitis. Apparently she'd been laying on the floor for 2 days after falling. This is the 3rd time in the last 6 months that this has happened. Her husband was there helping her eat, drink and cleaning her depends when she needed it but he's disabled and they apparent;y didn't want help until it got really bad. I don't know how to wrap my mind around this. lm
Words from the "things you didn't think you'd ever say" Vault."Honey, cats don't go in the oven". Wanna add yours? I know you've got them!
ugh. I really need to get this out before it poisons me.Things in the lunarfamily home are just so overwhelmingly grim at the moment. It's nothing all the rest of you aren't going through. Lack of money, too many bills, uncertainty about the future, health issues, personal issues, isolation, lack of space (my own), you get the point. I'm all kinds of grumpy and overwhelmed. I got accepted into a healing program in CA but there is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY I can attend. I'd need over $5,000 to go, SO NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. This completely depresses me. Like to no end. I know that the universe will provide if it's what I need/really want. But I can't even muster enough desire to let the universe know that is what I want. I've given up on making it happen. I feel like a failure. For more reasons than this, but this is a big one. I haven't seen my family back in Seattle for almost 2 years. And it looks like that won't happen anytime soon. We rotate years between the families. One in the Netherlands then one in Seattle, but this year we went to NL in April and then DH went back alone for the funeral. We are still paying for the $1000 last minute plane ticket and his time off (over $1500) for the funeral alone. We've gone overdraft 5 times in the last 6 months (this never happens) because his checks were all fuckered up and over $200 short each pay period because we had to pay back his unpaid time off because they didn't count it when he actually took it. There is just no money (or credit) to make my trip home happen. DH said he could take time off and let me go back alone but there really is NO MONEY, at all. Period. I haven't had a break from my kids for more than 2 hours in over a year. My husband has had over two weeks away from the kids on vacation and going back to the NL for a funeral. Not to mention the 8-9 hours a day that he is gone. I know he works hard. i know it's stressful and unsatisfying to work where he does. But really he's gone 9 hours a day, away from the kids...we live in different worlds and he has NO CLUE how hard this shit is. I went into debt to get him back to the Netherlands. I don't regret that, however I do feel like my needs ALWAYS get put on the back burner. They are not a priority to anyone but me. It's not that I don't ask for it. And it's not that he doesn't want to give it. It's just that usually, by the time I'm like "Listen, I NEED to do this/get time/etc" there is no money/he's out of vacation time/someone gets sick (me included). It's my job to make this stuff a priority but I feel trapped. Without an end in sight. In fact I feel like everything is unraveling. I also have some pretty scary health issues I'm dealing with. It sucks. I'm the only one who knows about them because I don't trust my doctor, and even if I did I can't afford to go (even though we pay over $300 a month for health insurance). Winter is not helping. The lack of sun, or ability to go outside (TOO DAMN COLD) and also the fact that we have only one car and DH works all damn day make me feel trapped. It also doesn't help that Dee is out of school for 2 weeks (DH gets time off work, Dee gets time off school, DH isn't here the two half days a week he's usually here to take Dee to school... MY WORK DOUBLES! - How fucking awesome is that?) And then he says "Well, at least you don't have to go out to go to work"...WTF?!?! Seriously? I'd KILL to GET OUT OF THE DAMN HOUSE, especially to work. At least then I'd feel like I had some power over my situation, and maybe get to poop alone once in awhile. I've been out 4 times in three weeks, only once was to go do something I *wanted* to do (Make body products for Christmas presents that I am now too poor to mail). I'm going crazy. I took myself out for dinner last night. It was nice but I couldn't afford it. I'm not going to feel guilty about it but it will have it's repercussions. I effing hate this. Any "getting through this" vibes would be greatly appreciated. Or advice, or whatever. Anything. I just need to feel like I'm not crazy, 'cause I do right now. I really, really do. And I'm terribly, terribly sad. I'm sending all my vibes out to all of you. I know you all are dealing with your own shit. Thanks for reading. Much love,
Feeling Grateful today. Here's why.1. Reconnected with an old friend whom I care for very much. It's been 6 years but somehow we always kept tabs on each other. We managed to TALK today (via IM), for a long time, and it was awesome. We are still an ocean apart but I'm glad to have this person back in my life.
FOUR MONTHS? (with attached pHOtos!!)That is how long it's been since I've posted. My last post was not overly happy but was definitely very real, which is where I've been all this time. In the REALLY REAL of life. I cannot even begin to recount all that has happened but here is a short list. *My Girl started KINDERGARTEN! (She was 3 months old when I started here!) at an amazing nature school! Much love!
Update on vibes request.The baby is too sick. Please send comforting vibes to Kris (and baby), Tony and Malcom in Seattle, they'll need all they can get.
Hello again, sorry for the long hiatus, f**ebook ate my soul.I've recently had to do my own intervention of FB and I've been really good about limiting my time there as it ate my soul and took me away from all my funny, amazing, smart mamafriends here at HM. Now that i've detoxed a bit I am, like the prodigal hipmama, returning to the fold. In honour of this fantastically awesome occasion I give you a photoho (did we ever find another name for this?) of my two growing girls and my big little life in Wisconsin.Take a look.
Vibes request.I know I haven't been around here much lately. I sometimes lurk but mostly I'm busy tending my garden, working on several projects and raising my two lovely girls (notice I say girls, not babies, Baby K is almost 2!!), so forgive me for just barging in after such a long time but a friend of mine sent me the following email last night and I'm asking all you mamas to please, please send healing and survival vibes to Seattle for her and her family (her husband has been a very good friend of mine for nearly 10 years, they also have a 2 year old son who will be deeply effected by this). This is going to be hard and they need all the positive vibes they an get. "We found out today that we are having a boy. We also found out that he has a congenital heart defect - Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. It is a rare, serious condition. We've been referred to a specialist now and still have a lot to find out - what we know is pretty minimal. My apologies for letting you know via mass e-mail, but it's not easy for me to talk about; this is a lot for us to process." Thanks mamas! I'll Ho soon! SO much to catch up on.
Crap, I haven't posted in awhileSpammer should be gone soon, Susan has been notified. Miss you all! lm
Madison, WI mamas. Want to see Ani DiFranco & Indigo Girls FREE? Can you do it on Thursday?I was gifted these tickets. I am trying to get back some of the $100 the mama spent on them but am willing to part with them for the cost of over-nighting them to you (or you can pick them up in Milwaukee free of charge!). If you know somebody pm me like NOW! I've got tickets for The Progressive's 100th Anniversary Celebration Concert, April 30, Madison, WI. We are homeowners!We got the house. Really, I mean it, I have the keys. I OWN IT (well the bank owns most of it but still!). WOOOOO!
Sick 3 year oldAny idea what might cause this list of symptoms?
WE GOT IT!Pending results of the inspections WE HAVE THE HOUSE!!!! OMFG!
We made an offer! Plus, Lunarmama gets a job (sorta)http://milwaukee.craigslist.org/reb/1060048987.html
We are pre-approved and might have found a house With more photos!)Help us decide!
ch-ch-changes....Holy crap It's over...where am I gonna live? and baby feverHOLY CRAP IT'S OVER! I finished the Follies. I've been living, eating it and breathing it for 3 months. It's over, it was rad. I made a wee bit of cash, I made the sponsors happy, I made some other people some cash and I promoted a lot of really awesome woman owned businesses! WOOOO!
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Why I love hipmamaBecause terms such as "Fucked up" and "Judgemental Bitch" can be tossed around and honored as the true and loving terms they are! Seriously, where else can we be this honest?? I LOVE YOU ALL!!!
Valentine's Dinner MenuI decided to make a red/pink food dinner and it turned out awesome. We invited my friend and her two boys over (the kids are the same age as my two girls) as her hubby had to work. This is what we had! *Lemon Dill Baked Salmon Now that I type it it doesn't sound great but damn was it tasty! All the kids ate it and the parents are stuffed. And yet! We're having red and blue fruit salad (strawberries, blueberries and blackberries) made by my mama friend, cherry pie and ice cream!
Matronalia is March 1st!Did you even KNOW this existed? I know some of you must, I only read about it for the first time today! I'm so excited about this! I am so going to add this to my "Days to be celebrated" as I am (like many of you) trying to lay claim to my own traditions and holidays. This one ROCKS my world! Matronalia Matronalia Men offered prayers for their wives Gardening mamas.I'm going to attempt to grow some of my on food this year and am totally lost. So I thought I'd ask you all for help, then I got the bright idea of looking up my zone (one of the few things I knew about gardening from when I was a kid!) and found this AWESOME resource! http://www.garden.org/zipzone/index.php?img=neusa You enter your zipcode and it gives you a list of public gardens, plants to plant in your area and so much more! woo!
HELP! *Update*It's 3am. I'm still up. Dee is still awake. She's ok but she just.won't.sleep. So I'm tucking her in for the umpteenth time and I feel a LUMP ON HER NECK. It's not in the place I'd expect to find a swollen lymph node. When I touch it she moves away but she says it doesn't hurt. It's further down her neck than where I know to check for lymph nodes,and it's only on one side. She totally melted down today, worse than she has been since we took her on a five hour flight while she was teething a ear and a half ago, and she's been a holy living terror off and on for a few days.
Sad news from belgium, Please vibe these families.Three die in Belgian crèche (daycare) stabbing
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