i mean seriously, my child is brilliant. writes his name. is incredibly creative. paints. draws. makes hilarious jokes. is so caring about others. he is so cool, i can't believe it. he is also 4 years old, turned 4 at the beginning of november, and will. not. poop. on the potty. he has been pee trained for 2 years. TWO YEARS. he wears underpants. he never pees his pants, never poops his pants. holds it. asks for a pull up, gets it, puts it on himself, goes. sometimes struggles with letting me clean him up, tries to avoid it i mean, procrastinates. wakes up dry almost all the time.